Formal education vs. Self-education

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Thomas Edison only went to three months of school.  During that time his teacher called him, “addled” due to Edison’s mind wandering.  That became the end of his formal education (his mother took over from there)!  This man revolutionized and modernized the entire world!  A prolific inventor, Edison held over 1,093 patents in the US and several others in the UK, France, and Germany.  The Wizard of Menlo Park is credited with almost too many inventions to mention.  “Genius is one percent inspiration, ninety-nine percent perspiration.”

 

Henry Ford only had the equivalent of a sixth grade education.  He was known for being obstinate.  Ford helped usher in the creation of the middle class!  He used mass production and the assembly line so well that he lowered the cost of the automobile to make it affordable to the common man.  He literally gave us the weekend!  “If I had asked my customers what they wanted they would have said a faster horse.”

 

Andrew Carnegie’s formal education ended after elementary school.  In those days many children would go to work to help support the family and Carnegie was no exception.  He revolutionized how the world developed through the use of steel in bridges, railroads, and skyscrapers.  He literally altered how the planet looks and how we all live our lives.  After selling Carnegie Steel he held the coveted title of world’s richest man.  “The older I get the less I listen to what people say and the more I look at what they do.”

 

I could go on and on about the countless amazingly successful, creative, innovative, free-thinking and hard-working individuals who left school or college early to pursue their own dreams and desires and ended up changing the entire world because they pressed on with tireless persistence even with all those doubting, petty, naysayers (many times close family, friends, teachers) blocking their way!  If you have time, it is a very interesting and enlightening study in Forbes -world’s most successful people -seeing how many of the world’s richest men and women forsook the common education of their time for their own bold exploration. I highly suggest checking into it.  I found it shocking how many found self-education through their own business ventures and experiments instead of in the box, run-of-the-mill, standard educations.

“Education will make you a living.  Self-education will make you a fortune.” -Jim Rohn

Today we find many educated idiots…especially in the dog training world!  We live in a world of over-information.  We all have fat heads.  Many of our brains are in desperate need of a good diet!

Did you know you can pay a few hundred bucks and many “pet associations” will happily assign you some reading materials and then give you a certification for dog training?  I even know other “trainers” who received all their training online!  While reading plenty of excellent books is important in studying canine behavior these associations mention volunteering and apprenticing with an established dog training company almost as an aside to getting their pathetic certification!  I think anyone can see they are casting a wide net in order to collect the most amount of cash from the most amount of people.  And as an entrepreneur myself I can see the benefits of casting a wide net but as an honest helper and calm rehabber of dogs it is a horrible method and largely why we have so many poorly trained dogs and even more poorly trained “trainers!”  In reality the apprenticing and the experience of handling several aggressive, fearful, dominant, hyper dogs are the ONLY things that truly matter in actually helping a budding trainer learn to modify a dog’s behavior.  The only certification or qualifications that truly count should be the amazing differences in the problematic dog’s behaviors.  The only thing that should really matter are the Results!

There also is the question of which reading materials these “associations” are suggesting?  Typically they are very biased in their selections and tend towards extremeness instead of more balanced methods.

And I hope everyone is aware that even if someone has years of experience in animal rescue if the rescue is largely run by volunteers (which they all are) then the experience one may receive is largely based on poor techniques and taught by folks who “love dogs” and who are trying their best but don’t really know how to calm, how to correct, how to train, how to rehab real fear or aggression or hyper behavior etc, etc!  Basically even if you have a hundred years of experience training dogs if it is all poor techniques it is a hundred years of helping to mistrain and hurt psychologically more dogs than you actually help!

I’m not trying to be mean here.  I say all this because I see it DAILY.  I hear from my clients constantly how they hired some company or another (or three or four different companies) to fix serious issues in their dogs and still these trainers come out with the same basic “sit, stay, down” for a treat method or occasionally strange new unnatural concepts (such as:  tethering your dog inside your home, or, when folks go for a group class and then -due to their dog’s behaviors- are placed in some cubicle separate and away from the class – just foolish and weird stuff) but clearly methods that do NOT line up with natural calming or with nature’s way or what the older social dog would teach and……. because they are so unnatural they don’t get good results.

No matter what I say, your vets say, your behaviorist says, your trainer says, your groomers say…seek your own answers within your own dog!  Look into nature.  Be super observant.  Always ask yourself…is this what the mother or father dog would do?  How do I calm this behavior out of my dog?  Keep thinking outside the box like Gates, Jobs, Zuckerberg, et cetera.  You will never regret listening to your own dog for what to do and then making a plan of action.

-G

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Dog fight!!! What to do when your dog is in a dog fight…

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What should we do when our dog is attacked? What should we do when our dog attacks another dog? How do we safely intervene? How can we fix the situation?

Dear readers, here are some guidelines to consider concerning when dogs fight.

1.Stay calm.

2. Please re-read and actually follow rule number 1!  

If everyone involved were to actually follow my first two rules the world would be a better place for people and our furry companions. I bring up calmness because it would imply that you are operating with a clear mind and not one exploding with fight/flight adrenaline. If you aren’t calm you aren’t in charge. End of story. If you aren’t calm how do you expect to handle conflict resolution? If you aren’t calm whatever actions you take will just usually INTENSIFY the situation.

Example: Imagine if you were stabbed or shot and then as you arrived at the hospital the doctors and nurses were shocked, and yelling, and flipping out; some crying, some severely angered, others simply stunned. Would they be of much help to you? Also keep in mind most fights (dog or human) last a very short time (many just seconds) Panic never helps in any situation.

Keep in mind you were the one who thought it was a good idea to bring a domesticated predator into your home.  A domesticated predator whose mighty ancestors still roam the mountains and plains and hunt, kill, and feast on prey animals up to 2000 pounds!A wolf from the Canyon Pack stalks an ailing bison at Otter Creek in Yellowstone National Park. (©Meg Sommers - click to enlarge)

 

3. Be prepared to take action.  Semper Paratus.

Being prepared is great.  Besides serving as the motto for the Boy Scouts and what Simba’s plotting Uncle Scar gave for advice to his minions of hungry hyenas, being prepared is never a bad thing. Attempt to be as aware as you can of your environment.  Our dogs are usually more aware of the environment than we are.

4. Proceed with caution!

All dogs are very quick (certainly quicker than people). All dogs can see movement better than you or I (due to the ratio of rods to cones in the dog’s eye). All dogs come equipped with a host of amazingly powerful jaws and large pointed teeth (you know, their “canine” choppers). Dogs are famous for their bite force and are used around the world by police, military, and private training companies for just this purpose. No need to elaborate on the mouth and teeth. All dogs have sharp claws. I’ve been bloodied up many times just from an aggressive dog attempting to grab me with their paws/claws!  Almost all dogs have fur that can protect them to a degree.

And the most important part of point number four…they have the inherent nature to survive. They don’t want to get hurt and will often end disagreements quickly if they can.  This means they will fight or flight if necessary.  Dogs are highly intelligent social creatures who will simply disagree with each other sometimes and use fight to do it.  But because dogs are so social it also means they have a fantastically peaceful nature inherently and that in most cases means a disagreement will only last a few seconds.

An exception to this would be dogs that have been conditioned to fight or are constantly pulling on the leash.Leash pulling will always escalate a dog’s energy levels. In protection work we want a taut leash. In calming a dog we do not want any pulling.  Learn to develop a great “heel” command where your dog walks loosely at your side.

 

Now please take a quick look at yourself and see if you have are equipped as well naturally to jump on into the fray and break up a dog fight. Do you have an incredible bite force? Do you have claws and fur? Do you have more rods than cones in your eyes and although you cannot see color as well because of the muted color scheme you can detect the slightest movements and zero in on them? Do you have an inherent nature to avoid confrontation and get along with the pack? Do you see where I’m going with this? Or maybe I should ask… Do you value your fingers? Do you value your hands? Do you value your legs?

5. To yell or not to yell?

If you yell it should only be for a moment and even then it typically won’t really do anything (barring the exception that your dog is somewhat well behaved and is not in too immediate danger/ is already latched onto) and it could just exacerbate the problem with more sound energy!

6. Evaluating the fight…

If your dog is on leash and they are not latched (from biting the other dog) you can pull back. And quickly turn the your dog away.  If they are latched onto each other with a firm bite Do Not pull back as this will only tear the flesh more and cause real damage.

7. Leave in control of yourself and your dog and don’t inadvertently cause a behavioral problem!

If your dog is around a large group of dogs leave the area right away. After exchanging personal info at the scene of course – I would assume this goes without saying!  Unless the wounds are so small that they really won’t need any vet assistance.  I mention leaving because you don’t want more dogs jumping in because of the over-excited energy (see rules one and two!). If it is only your dog and another dog I would NOT suggest you leave the area right away as this can almost instantly cause a behavioral issue in your dog! Your dog could form a new habit and think that it was such a traumatic experience (even if it wasn’t traumatic and most times it is not!)  If it indeed was traumatic -meaning a real fight that lasted more than a couple seconds with real puncture wounds (you know they look like a vampire bit down on your dog and many lacerations) – you should literally pretend for your dog’s sake that it was no big deal.  This is when you need to be strong for your dog and in control of your thoughts and emotions.

Let me explain. Dogs live in the moment and can form habits extremely fast. I believe many animals can form habits faster than humans (we typically form then in 21 – 30 days). If you are presenting weak, ineffective, over-excitable, or any imbalanced energy you will literally be hurting your own dog psychologically. Dogs feed on the energy around them.  And, honestly, if you’re crying, screaming, dancing around ineffectively, you certainly won’t help anyone -least of all your own dog.

All lead dogs in mother nature will be the calm, cool, and collected type.  Dogs will not follow a hysterical, sobbing, out-of-control human even if they’ve had years of the typical “sit, stay, down” et cetera training. Again please see rules 1 and 2. I handle several hundred dogs a year where the owners tell me they used to be fine with other dogs UNTIL they were attacked or they got into a fight with another dog.

8. Develop resilience and a tough skin.

Do your self and your dog a favor and Pretend Everything is Fine and handle the situation like a real dog leader would. Because chances are (and I’ve seen this many times) there is minor or no damages in many cases and the humans are all worked up because their two dogs had a disagreement. This does not mean you cannot honestly disagree with the other human about their dog but this leads into my next point…

9. Be polite to the other human as best you can.

You get more flies with honey than vinegar. This is hard for most people in today’s unnatural, technology-crazed, fast food, instant gratification society. Manners are at an all time low. Be upfront and honest but try not to be rude.

Please imagine two somewhat, normal people and now picture their dogs fight for a few moments and now ask yourself this question…Do you think anyone of the people actually wanted a fight to take place? If their dog was the initiator don’t you think the owner would be concerned about the behavior?

10. Don’t be a victim!

If you are the victim don’t act like it. Acting like a victim has never helped anyone ever in the whole history of the world.  If you are incredibly worked up you have that right but, again, it won’t do you any favors when interacting with the other owner. And what’s more, you may be inadvertently hurting your dog with all the Human Drama. Please check rules 1 and 2 just one more time. Eliminate all Human drama. It is unnecessary and a foolish waste of energy. If you are wasting energy what are you teaching your dog?  Now is the time to Calmly Lead.  Now is the time to show how you handle adversity!

If you have the dog that started the fight – settle your dog down by controlling the eye contact (this means breaking it) and spinning them away if you can safely do so. Some experts suggest grabbing them by the back legs and spinning them in a circle away from the other dog. I say good luck with that. Make sure to go and see the other dog (if the owner is still there and if you can safely do so). Make sure you see if there is damage and what sort. Offer to pay the vet bills as this is customary and the right thing to do. Unless, of course, the owner doesn’t want to see you or talk to you (some clients tell me this has happened to them and the other party just yelled at them and walked off. This usually means there is little to no injury to their dog and they just want to get out of the situation. Let them.) Don’t cause more human drama. However, if you can stay on the scene a bit this can help most dogs settle down and not go right from Fight into Flight.  Remember, we don’t want any new unsocial habits forming.  Just being around (at a safe distance where they cannot get at each other) even with the dog they just had the disagreement with while the owners correct and calm them can shockingly be beneficial and hammer home that sociability is the only way.

11. Prevention.  Prevention.  Prevention.

The best option is to obviously not let your dog get into a fight in the first place.  You can usually prevent dog fighting drama if you develop an excellent relationship with your dog, socialize the heck out of them but make sure you maintain the lead (remember that “heel” I mentioned earlier?).  And in many cases where the dog already has dog aggression you need to continue to get them out and about (cautiously) but the risk is worth the reward if you know what you are doing because deep down dogs are always ready to learn to be social.  That being said, if it happened to you or ever does please learn from the wisdom of the dogs and shake off stress and cares, live in the moment, keep moving forward, forgive and forget, remain in control of your energy and learn to control your dog’s energy!

Learn to read their body language. Do not allow your dog to stare at other dogs!  Do not allow your dog to throw it’s head over other dogs shoulders when meeting or playing.  Be a tension calmer.  Many misunderstandings can be prevented if the dog’s language is fluid and the human owner also understands canine communication. Sadly many, many dogs are aggressive, do pull, lunge, snap on the leash and off and have a horrible dog language and do not know how to get back to a calm, peaceful place! Seek professional help and someone with an excellent reputation for rehabbing aggressive, fearful, or dangerous dogs (remember, while almost all training companies and behaviorists advertise that they handle aggression- the sad truth is that many Mishandle it.

True dog aggression cannot be fixed with treats and “watch me” commands.  It will not be fixed from attending a “Growly Class” (think for a moment how foolish the human concept of a “Growly dog class” is.  Dogs are social creatures who learn from other people and dogs so why would I place my dog into a large group of other dogs with the exact same issue?)  Instead, get your dog extra exercise, structure and discipline, a great “heel”, proper house manners, don’t let him over-touch you or others, and eventually you have to “jump in the pool” and get your dog more social and around other calm “example” dogs.  Whatever the behavioral question is… the only answer is more sociability!

Need help? Give me a call!  I behaviorally rehab fearful and aggressive dogs with great success on a daily basis!

Keep it peaceful,
-Garrett