A primer on Persistence: Tortoise style

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“Energy and Persistence conquer all things.”  -Benjamin Franklin

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It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop  -Confucius

Websters defines persistence as the quality that allows someone to continue doing something or trying to do something even though it is difficult or opposed by other people; the state of occurring or existing beyond the usual, expected, or normal time.  

Consider persistence and our prime example the tortoise.  Imagine for a moment being born as a tortoise.  The moments passing by as you rip and tear your way through your leathery egg shell.   Using neck muscles, head movement, the egg tooth on top of your snout, and perhaps the most important quality, persistence, you steadily break free to the beckoning light of day.  Is it over then?  Are you rewarded for your Herculean effort?  Naw!  As you blink your round baby tortoise eyes, clearing the slime from them, pupils adjusting to the powerful light, you attempt an awkward step forward.

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You are shocked to discover there is something large and quite cumbersome encompassing the majority of your body!  What strange curse is this?  What is weighing you down?  Whatever it is, it seems an unfortunate and truly besetting plight.  You take a few more steps, half walking-half dragging your rounded shell across the sand.   Maybe the heavy apparatus will fall off if you move around enough?  You keep moving- step by step; quite slowly at first.  What trick of nature is this?  Born with an outrageous and bulbous weight to bear you down to the earth.  You walk on pausing momentairly to sniff the ground.

To the outside observer though there begins to appear a certain cadence, a slow and hampered rhythm to your plodding.  Step by scaled step, claw by claw, one sturdy leg after another, you start putting distance between yourself and the crumpled remains of your egg.  Hunger pangs begin to awaken primal feeding instincts deep inside you and, naturally, you actively start the search for a bite to eat letting your nose guide you.

The astute observer might notice that, as you lumber forward with each and every step, you now appear fairly steady for one so young.  Remarkable.  Inch after inch your persistent plodding continues.  Like a soldier marching with his platoon, your strong legs keep a forward beat.   As you continue on your journey you are happy indeed to find that your shell is now easily held aloft, plastron no more touching the ground.  You sniff and read the wide world around.

Entering a deeper part of the forest you are confronted with bumps from jutting rocks and fallen logs.  Does this slow your forward progress?  Hardly.  Because slow and steady are your credo.  Patience, endurance, and persistence are your bywords.  You simply advance.  Advancing over, under, or around matters not.  But you must advance.  You must eat.  Like a tank you press on.  After smelling and walking, sniffing and tramping around steadily your sharp nostrils finally detect an item good to eat.  After sniffing it several times you tear into the plant heartily, sharp beak snipping chunks off.  As hungry as you are you quickly find that you cannot devour the food as fast as you’d hoped.  Your small beak doesn’t allow for that.  As you attempt to choke down as much as possible it takes quite a while before you have finished with just one leaf.  More time is dedicated to what other creatures do easily.  You endure.

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As the days pass into years your experiences, like your shell, grow much larger.  Your carapace and plastron are hard now and you are thankful for the clever protection and the steady lifestyle your secure, yet mobile home affords you.  You enjoy your daily excursions around the forest floor even though it is inevitably tough going.  Your fears are few because your shell protects you from the larger dangers and your fortitude and patience guide you consistently forward.  You have learned that even when something in your path is difficult there is always, always, always a way through, over, under, or around it.  You are tough.  You are wise.  And you will live much longer than the creatures around you.  You are the embodiment of persistence.

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Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence.  Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent.  Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb.  Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts.  Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.  -Calvin Coolidge

 

Alternative lessons: The Tortoise and the Hare

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I love Aesop and his many fables.  The guy was wise.  He was creative.  As humans we all appreciate stories even if not all of us appreciate learning or applying the lessons.  In today’s exciting blog post we will look at the classic story of the Hare and the Tortoise and hopefully learn something new.  Let’s take an alternative (Garrett Stevens) look at a classic fable…

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Why can’t the Hare get any love?  I’m serious.  Is it the rabbit’s fault he was born for speed?

I get the lesson of the story.  Over the years I’ve learned that slow and steady can win “the race.”  I am a huge fan of patient persistence especially when it’s intelligently directed toward a specific goal.  But what about all the benefits of speed and explosiveness?  How can we ignore the power of quickness and an explosive start?

I say let’s learn from both wonderful creatures and their strengths!

Part One:  THE HARE

Yes, the Hare lost.  He had a fantastic start to “the race.”  The rabbit burst from the starting line like a bullet leaving the tortoise in a massive cloud of earth and dust.  But we all know what happened down the road.  The Hare got distracted.  He got lazy.  He was too comfortable in his abilities.  Some might say the Hare even procrastinated during “the race.”

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The Hare had an amazing start and some strong moments throughout “the race.”  If he had kept his focus victory could have been his.  “Could have been“…morose words.  I pray we personally never have to think or dwell on words like those at the end of our lives.

What if we could combine the strengths of the Hare with the strengths of the Tortoise in our personal lives?  We can!  And we must.  Here is why…

In today’s world of entertainment, online connectivity, and tomorrow’s future virtual reality it is extremely, extremely easy and getting ever easier to settle for a comfortable life and nothing more.  With an almost immeasurable number of TV shows and websites one can quite literally waste half or more of one’s life watching someone else live instead of doing the living oneself!  Think of that for a moment.  Staggering.  My point?  The Hare was a great starter.  He didn’t like to sit still.  He possibly would have been diagnosed with ADHD if he had been a second-grade American boy from today’s era.

All action begins with a single step.  “He who moves mountains begins by carrying away small stones.”  For many people the starting line is scary.  So many folks would prefer to simply watch others on TV and, from their couches, they stare ahead like zombies at other people’s starts, middles, and finishes.  It’s so much safer that way.  (Please don’t be condemned – I am as guilty of zombie watching and checking out of my own life as the next bloke).  The hare raced forward with several steps.  He took action.

We all could learn from the Hare.  We only have so much time and if you really want to accomplish anything sometimes we need to throw caution to the wind (don’t hide in your shell) and just take off!  Screw comfort – embrace quickness!  Have confidence in yourself!  Don’t over think everything – “Just DO It!”  The Nike Company must be fans of the Hare…their slogan is total rabbit talk.  Nike must also be tortoise fans as well (just look at their longevity and success thus far.)

I believe some people are more inclined to be Hares while others are more inclined to be Tortoises.  Furthermore identifying this Who’s who could be a great opportunity in one’s personal life, marriage, career, et cetera to compliment and encourage each other and to help lend someone our specific strength where we sense a need.

Can you imagine how much the tortoises of the world would relish the amazing speed, outgoing nature, and carefree actions of the hare if they had them at their disposal?  Can you imagine how much the hares across the planet could learn to appreciate the steady and persistent and reliable finishes of the tortoise?

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I’ve heard of the Jack-a-lope but this is getting ridiculous

 

Now let’s translate imagination into actual ACTION like a good Hare and explode forward with passion and energy.  Beware distractions though and cultivate sharp focus.

(apply this action to your daily dog handling!)

Tune in next time as we examine the terrific and tremendous attributes of the Tortoise…TO BE CONTINUED…

 

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Teddy Roosevelt can improve your dog’s behavior!

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Teddy Roosevelt was The Most Interesting Man in the World long before the Dos Equis guy from the commercials was around!

Before people even knew how to speed-read TR would devour at least one book during his very busy day and many times up to three books a day. He also possessed a photographic memory or close to it and could recite passages years later and discuss topics from the books at length. Here he is reading with his dog. I love this picture.

Ornithologist, Taxidermist, Aristocrat, Explorer, Speed-Reader, Naturalist, Pugilist, Harvard Grad, Biologist, World Traveler, Historian, Martial Artist, Author (35 books), Husband, Cowboy, Big game Hunter, Father, Conservationist, Assemblyman, Police Commissioner, Naval Secretary, Soldier, Colonel, Governor, Nobel Peace Prize and Medal of Honor winner, Vice President, and President; TR was a super-energetic, charismatic, learned, and dynamic personality.

Anyone can learn a lot from studying and emulating Teddy.  I don’t really have the time to go into so many of the lessons that could be gleaned from the man’s life but I will just list a few and, of course, keep them dog specific (as in, our excellent blog will always help you concerning the topic of dog behavior).

Be a life-long learner

TR was an avid learner and obviously, as you read from his list of accomplishments above, his learning far surpassed the average individual  He was a voracious reader and could speed-read before people even knew that was a thing.  He also had a photographic memory.  This allowed him to discuss with confidence a broad range of topics and mix in with almost any individual person or crowd.  Roosevelt also learned physically from experiencing the earth and travelling, hunting, fishing, exploring, hiking, boxing, judo, camping, and ranch work.  He was a dandy man about town but also could easily fit in with the simple ranch-hand, cowpoke, or backwoods hunter.

The main point is to keep learning and discovering.  Teddy wasn’t just book smart he was physically smart as well.  When he took up the challenge from his father of transforming his sickly body as an asthmatic youth he persisted until he literally became a “bull moose” of a man!  His brain and body then could function as one well-oiled machine, bursting with personality and passionate energy.

“With self-discipline most anything is possible.”   -TR

Keep learning from your dog and not just jumping to conclusions or listening to the status quo about how to train.  Don’t just take whatever your vet or trainer says as gospel truth.  Learn from mother nature and remember to lead your dog with energy and physical vigor (like Teddy would).  Be open to experience the natural world.  Get outside and into the woods.  Slow down at certain times.  Speed up other times.  Your dog will find it irresistible.  Be the sort of leader your dog can follow.  Physically take the lead and be energetic about it when needed.

Develop toughness

TR had mental toughness.  TR had physical toughness.

Did you know in Teddy’s personal daily journals that he hardly ever recorded a negative thought?  He could have easily written down the wrongs someone may have done him while he was serving to clean up a very corrupt New York government as their Police Commissioner but he didn’t.  He could have written so much about the tragedy of losing his first love and wife (Alice) just after the birth of their first child.  His mother also died on the same day as his wife!  What a horrific tragedy!  TR kept everything under wraps if it had any discouragement or downside.  He had mental toughness.  He wrote his journals as if he was sure others would read them one day!  Of course he was crushed mentally and emotionally at the loss of his young, beautiful wife and his caring mother on the same day but I love the fact that he would prefer to focus his writing and his life on what could be done for the good of his family, his city, his state, and his country.  How mentally tough are you?

TR was also renowned for his physical toughness.  As he matured more he kept developing his body into a real vehicle for all his energies and passions.  His stamina is legendary.  Although he was a New York aristocrat he could physically keep up (and usually surpass) many rough and tumble athletic woodsmen, frontiersmen, ranchers, cowboys, soldiers, hunters, sportsmen, and martial artists.

As President TR lost the vision in his left eye when boxing with a military aid in the White House!  The punch had detached the retina, caused severe hemorrhaging, and eventual blindness.  Roosevelt was 50 years old at the time!

Roosevelt also was a skilled judo practitioner.  During his years in the White House he lined the basement with training mats and used to throw around anyone who was willing!  He became America’s first brown belt!

“It is only through labor and painful effort, by grim energy and resolute courage, that we move on to better things.”         -TR

Are you going at your dog’s behavioral issues like TR would?  Are you staying positive mentally?  Are you physically imposing in your presence if the dog is trying to dominant the space or do you just let the dog have his way?  Are you up for the challenge?  Do you look at the dog’s issues as an opportunity to teach your dog and to better understand your dog or are you just beaten down with the behavioral problem?

Fight for what you want

Teddy loved a good fight it mattered not whether it was a physical opponent, a political foe, or taking on the ultra-capitalists as the “Trust-buster.”  He is well known for never shying from an opponent and he subscribed to what he called the strenuous life.  He toiled on purpose to push his body and mind to greater achievements.  Boxing, polo, hiking, rowing, horseback riding, jujitsu, judo and winter skinny dipping in the Potomac River all against doctor’s orders!

Take the challenge of working with your dog!  Choose the strenuous life!  Take a moment and read The Man in The Arena.

“Speak softly and carry and big stick; you will go far.”  -TR

 

TR had an amazing wealth of knowledge when it came to animals and the natural world.

 

Control and focus your energy

Roosevelt had boundless energy.  I’m positive he would have scoffed at the Five Hour Energy commercials we see on TV.  Almost all successful folk know how to really direct and focus their energy on the task at hand.  TR was able to do this brilliantly.  It can be seen throughout his entire life’s story.  Teddy’s was a life defined by charismatic energy, a ready mind, toughness, and his fantastic adventures and accomplishments.  To achieve a life like this we must consider concentration, and direct focus and control of our own personal energy and then mix it with ACTION.

“Great thoughts speak only to the thoughtful mind, but great actions speak to all mankind.”  -TR

Focus and controlling your energy takes practice.  Practice makes perfect.  You want better control over your dog or puppy?  Seek out better control of your own energy.  Concentrated energy applied directly with laser like focus is a powerful thing.  As you learn to control and direct your own energies all the dog stuff will become simple!

Ted and his terriers.  Terriers are known for tenacity, energy, voracity, and a warrior spirit. Many terriers are small but extremely tough. They are bred for hunting, digging, and fighting and killing their quarry even if their prey is much larger than they are!

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-G

 

 

How to win friends and influence dogs!

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Good Morning!  Greet everyone you see today like a well- adjusted, social dog would and you’ll be on your way to a great day.  Who is the best friend and networker on the block?  You guessed it!  A social dog is.

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Think and act like a dog today and spread a little joy to others as you go about your day.  You will never regret helping someone else.

Have fun,

-G

To correct or not to correct, that is the question?

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In today’s world filled with every conceivable type of information speeding to us from any and every source imaginable it is often hard to decipher which methods of training are beneficial to our dogs and their behavior.  We have all been inundated with info.  We have fat heads and our brains are overweight and in desperate need of an informational diet.

Help!!! Information Overload………………………….

 

We need clean, wholesome, healthy information and must beware overeating any foolish bit of dog training info that is out there.  Remember, if a common dog training method is largely accepted and you are tempted to gulp it down please consider the many people stuffing their faces with fast food because it’s convenient, cheap, abundant, and also largely accepted!

 

Just because the majority believes in something doesn’t mean it is true or the best way.  Always seek the natural answer when dealing with an animal.

One hot button topic many would even consider taboo is whether or not we should “correct” our dogs or pups.  In this article I will give you a few good reasons to correct your dogs or pups.  Reasons that line up 100% with what the dogs teach us.  Reasons that line up with what any astute person can readily observe within a dog park, dog daycare, or group of three or more dogs.  Reasons that come straight from the dogs!  I will show you that corrections, if performed correctly, are extremely BENEFICIAL to your dog or pup!

First let’s cut through some of the crazy extremeness that exists in the dog training and behavioral community at large. In search of training companies or behaviorists or even vets please beware any extreme dogmatism where training is concerned!  Make sure the methods are based very specifically on domesticated dogs (not other random wild animals) and based on mother nature’s calming methods. And, above all, make sure the trainer or behaviorist gets tremendous results!

There should be no crazed high-pitched excitable talk, constant giving of treats, or other foolish bribery in the training methods.  If you (or your trainer) act that way ask yourself, Isn’t that how a puppy acts?  And if a pup acts all hyper and high-pitched and over-excited then, Who is going to take the role of leader in your relationship?

Dogs correct other dogs constantly.  Mother and Father dog correct their young constantly.  If more people just looked at the dogs honestly they’d see correcting isn’t this horrible, debilitating ordeal but is instead a great tool the older, social canine uses to instruct the younger ones.  This can be observed anywhere!

In correcting there should be no expensive shock collars you need to purchase.  There should be no unnatural things you have to throw at your dog.  There should be no spraying them with anything, no tethering them to anything, no hitting them with anything, no yelling.  It’s time we get away from all that foolishness. Calmness mixed with firmness is plenty.

Dogs are Not wild animals and should not be treated like a bear learning a trick on a movie set or a dolphin doing a flip to earn a fish from a tourist in Hawaii.  Beware of trainers who only teach bribery and excitement as that is the opposite of how the mother and father dog would raise their young.  Mother Nature always teaches energy control and the older canines always keep a calm watch over their pups.  The mother and father dog (and any balanced, older canine for that matter) are not equipped with treat bags on their hips and do not use high pitched, lavish praise, when instructing their pups.  They are usually monitoring the energy in order to keep the peace and attempting to use as little energy of their own energy as possible.

Dogs are not Dolphins and should not be treated as such. The bond is much, much deeper between man’s best friend and mankind than some slippery, flippery wild animal could ever dream

Corrections, if done correctly, are very beneficial to puppies and dogs just as they can be beneficial to growing children.  If you want to raise a healthy, well adjusted dog (or child) please don’t be an extremist that only trains with excitement and bribery and treats and don’t, on the opposite end of the spectrum, just dominate with harshness and constant physical corrections. Seek out a balance. It’s OK to reward but never to bribe.  It’s OK to correct but never to hurt.  

Here’s a wild concept: Why don’t we look to the dogs for methods on how we should deal with our dogs?  If we honestly observe them we start to see that a correction isn’t so bad when it is performed the way a balanced, older dog would perform it.  In fact, it’s fantastic!  I’ve discovered there is a whole art to it!  It is an art form based in movement, body language and energy control.  A correction is the art of calmness!  And, shockingly, most times it doesn’t even involve a physical touch but is more outmaneuvering the wayward dog and then readjusting their body language until the animal is presenting a calm body position which then helps them calm their own energy.

Learning to correct can be very simple and is shockingly effective in fixing any and all aggression, fear, dominance, hyperactivity, and all other behavioral dilemmas.  The reason that proper corrections should be learned and adopted by more trainers and behaviorists is that it lines up with exactly what dogs do to each other non-stop when they are surrounded by other dogs in order to keep the peace.  It is nature’s way and it is actual energy conservation.  Another huge reason correcting is fantastic is that it actually works and saves times and energy.  The mother dog uses ignoring or extreme focused attention and then right back to ignoring when correcting her young.  She is a remarkable energy saver.

Notice how the mom is walking away and all the pups are following and watching her…NOT the other way round! She walks away first. She ignores and they follow. She leads the way.

The ideal correction is a beautiful thing to behold because it keeps the peace, calms the energy, and lets the game or activity continue on almost as if nothing ever happened.  It is never overboard and yet there is an intense focus to it when applied.  It is always followed by calmness.  I sometimes equate it to getting a foul in basketball.  If you are a b-ball player and you receive a foul you don’t take it and let it get you down, you don’t play the rest of the game on pins and needles out of fear.  Hopefully you learn from it and quickly move on and get your head back in the game.  You don’t totally ignore the foul because you are aware that if you get 5 fouls you are out of the game and of no use to your team/pack.  You stop playing the ball game for a second, think it over, and then resume play.  It is exactly the same with a good correction that is perfectly timed.

Do you see what I’m getting at?  Giving a dog or pup a correction isn’t done to intimidate the dog or belittle it or prove you are a macho Alpha, it is done to help guide the pup.  It is always done to improve the animal’s spirit.  It makes for a better dog.  Like a sculptor chipping away at unnecessary pieces of marble you can chip away at mis-behaviors and unsocial habits in your dog or pup to reveal the true spirit and energy of a socially brilliant and beautiful animal. 

Apparently sculptors don’t need to button their shirts…it’s more artistic that way

Use pressure and tension so that you can then release it and give the dog access to a self soothing calming signal.  If you aren’t correcting the right way your relationship is imbalanced in the respect or trust category and behavioral issues will be the result.  The guitar needs the right tension on the guitar strings to keep it in tune…too much is horrible, it pops the strings.  Not enough tension and you can’t make any music!  Learn to correct and you’ll have real resonance with your dog.

Our dogs desperately need the right corrections filled with just enough tension and pressure and then the right timing to release the tension so it will resonate and just like a guitar make wondrous music

Remember a correction should never create fear or aggression. We don’t want a pathetic, super-submissive dog.  We also don’t want a dominant, hyper brat.  The correction should get the dog’s attention.  When correcting you are attempting to cut off any misbehavior at the earliest identifiable outset.  This makes it much gentler and easier on everyone.  And if you can match their energy level you can communicate what you want or what you don’t want much clearer and more effectively.  This comes with practice, persistence, and patience.

If I  could sit you down and teach you the language of Dog (like French or Italian) the word for correct would be the same exact word for calm and the same exact word for claim.  Correct = Calm.  Correct = Claim.  Claim = Calm.

Your dog will always tell you honestly what it needs.  Let’s build a relationship with our dogs based on respect and trust instead of bribes or brutality.  Let’s make music!

Need help?

Give me a call,

-G

 

 

 

Formal education vs. Self-education

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Thomas Edison only went to three months of school.  During that time his teacher called him, “addled” due to Edison’s mind wandering.  That became the end of his formal education (his mother took over from there)!  This man revolutionized and modernized the entire world!  A prolific inventor, Edison held over 1,093 patents in the US and several others in the UK, France, and Germany.  The Wizard of Menlo Park is credited with almost too many inventions to mention.  “Genius is one percent inspiration, ninety-nine percent perspiration.”

 

Henry Ford only had the equivalent of a sixth grade education.  He was known for being obstinate.  Ford helped usher in the creation of the middle class!  He used mass production and the assembly line so well that he lowered the cost of the automobile to make it affordable to the common man.  He literally gave us the weekend!  “If I had asked my customers what they wanted they would have said a faster horse.”

 

Andrew Carnegie’s formal education ended after elementary school.  In those days many children would go to work to help support the family and Carnegie was no exception.  He revolutionized how the world developed through the use of steel in bridges, railroads, and skyscrapers.  He literally altered how the planet looks and how we all live our lives.  After selling Carnegie Steel he held the coveted title of world’s richest man.  “The older I get the less I listen to what people say and the more I look at what they do.”

 

I could go on and on about the countless amazingly successful, creative, innovative, free-thinking and hard-working individuals who left school or college early to pursue their own dreams and desires and ended up changing the entire world because they pressed on with tireless persistence even with all those doubting, petty, naysayers (many times close family, friends, teachers) blocking their way!  If you have time, it is a very interesting and enlightening study in Forbes -world’s most successful people -seeing how many of the world’s richest men and women forsook the common education of their time for their own bold exploration. I highly suggest checking into it.  I found it shocking how many found self-education through their own business ventures and experiments instead of in the box, run-of-the-mill, standard educations.

“Education will make you a living.  Self-education will make you a fortune.” -Jim Rohn

Today we find many educated idiots…especially in the dog training world!  We live in a world of over-information.  We all have fat heads.  Many of our brains are in desperate need of a good diet!

Did you know you can pay a few hundred bucks and many “pet associations” will happily assign you some reading materials and then give you a certification for dog training?  I even know other “trainers” who received all their training online!  While reading plenty of excellent books is important in studying canine behavior these associations mention volunteering and apprenticing with an established dog training company almost as an aside to getting their pathetic certification!  I think anyone can see they are casting a wide net in order to collect the most amount of cash from the most amount of people.  And as an entrepreneur myself I can see the benefits of casting a wide net but as an honest helper and calm rehabber of dogs it is a horrible method and largely why we have so many poorly trained dogs and even more poorly trained “trainers!”  In reality the apprenticing and the experience of handling several aggressive, fearful, dominant, hyper dogs are the ONLY things that truly matter in actually helping a budding trainer learn to modify a dog’s behavior.  The only certification or qualifications that truly count should be the amazing differences in the problematic dog’s behaviors.  The only thing that should really matter are the Results!

There also is the question of which reading materials these “associations” are suggesting?  Typically they are very biased in their selections and tend towards extremeness instead of more balanced methods.

And I hope everyone is aware that even if someone has years of experience in animal rescue if the rescue is largely run by volunteers (which they all are) then the experience one may receive is largely based on poor techniques and taught by folks who “love dogs” and who are trying their best but don’t really know how to calm, how to correct, how to train, how to rehab real fear or aggression or hyper behavior etc, etc!  Basically even if you have a hundred years of experience training dogs if it is all poor techniques it is a hundred years of helping to mistrain and hurt psychologically more dogs than you actually help!

I’m not trying to be mean here.  I say all this because I see it DAILY.  I hear from my clients constantly how they hired some company or another (or three or four different companies) to fix serious issues in their dogs and still these trainers come out with the same basic “sit, stay, down” for a treat method or occasionally strange new unnatural concepts (such as:  tethering your dog inside your home, or, when folks go for a group class and then -due to their dog’s behaviors- are placed in some cubicle separate and away from the class – just foolish and weird stuff) but clearly methods that do NOT line up with natural calming or with nature’s way or what the older social dog would teach and……. because they are so unnatural they don’t get good results.

No matter what I say, your vets say, your behaviorist says, your trainer says, your groomers say…seek your own answers within your own dog!  Look into nature.  Be super observant.  Always ask yourself…is this what the mother or father dog would do?  How do I calm this behavior out of my dog?  Keep thinking outside the box like Gates, Jobs, Zuckerberg, et cetera.  You will never regret listening to your own dog for what to do and then making a plan of action.

-G

Bruce Lee was right

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Bruce Lee is a hero of mine.  He has been since my youth.

The guy was a work horse.  He was a philosopher.  He was a fighting machine.  Determined and focused Lee was an expert at his craft, a true artist.

When Bruce Lee first began martial arts he was taught Wu Tai Chi Chuan by his father.  After joining a Hong Kong street gang and wanting to improve his fighting technique he studied Wing Chun Kung Fu under legendary master Yip Man.  File:The age of 18 Bruce Lee and Ye Wen.jpg

Bruce also became an excellent dancer (a Cha-Cha dancing champ).  He added traditional Western boxing to his martial resume and sent a fair share of boxers home after knocking them out.  Lee also took up fencing; learning from his brother who was a champion in the sport.  He went on to study Choy Li Fut, Judo, Praying mantis Kung Fu, Hsing-I, and Jujitsu.  This varied background led Bruce to personally modify his Wing Chun Kung Fu base and when he opened his first martial arts school in Seattle it was under the name Lee Jun Fan Kung Fu.

“Absorb what is useful, Discard what is not, Add what is uniquely your own.”

Did he stop there?  Of course not.  This is the point of my post.  Bruce Lee was constantly improving and refining his techniques.   In a quest to become a better martial artists, teacher, philosopher, and human being and to attain a more realistic martial system he got away from certain forms and traditions and added more fluid and beneficial movements.  He created Jeet Kune Do (The way of the Intercepting Fist) a more realistic and applicable martial art for real life.  Bruce’s emphasis was on, “practicality, flexibility, speed, and efficiency.”

How I wish more dog trainers/behavioralists would have the same emphasis and work the same way with their methods!  Instead, what I find are “professionals” who use either methods based in too much excitement (treats, treats, treats) which is not nature’s way or, on the other end of the spectrum, entirely too many leash-pop corrections!

The majority do not take into account the individual personality, energy levels, and capacity of the dog or pup at the exact moment of time in training!  They seldom consider what is most important to Mother Nature and just plow forward with what is popular or what has been taught them by another human being or what they claim is their method.  Bruce Lee had to deal with this stuff all the time because the major schools of martial arts all claimed their style was the best.

Just look at the ridiculousness and arguments from differing trainers about “positive” or “negative” training methods.  They have no flexibility in their dogmas.  How foolish to waste energy concerned with either method particularly when our dogs are not concerned in the least about those categories.  Dogs, unlike humans, are not thinking on positive or negative terms.  They are free from that human garbage and are content with basic survival needs.  And, by the way, dogs do correct each other but it is always for the benefit of the group and to control the energy levels so fights don’t break out and is used only as calming communication.

“Don’t waste yourself.” (a quote from Enter the Dragon – I teach owners and dogs to save their energy not waste it!)

The dog training books and info are hardly better (many lacking in practicality, good results, and efficiency).  Most training or dog behavior books are either much to treat/bribery oriented or, on the other end, are way too many wasted words and filled with ridiculous mental gymnastics.  The methods then become lost to the general public and devoid of simple and direct solutions!  Don’t worry, folks, I am working on my own book to remedy this problem.

“Simplicity is the last step of art.  Simplicity is the key to brilliance.”  

Today Bruce Lee is considered by many to be the founder of modern mixed martial arts because of his combining of styles and his search to have no style except the one that works best for the situation at hand.  Lee yearned to be free and to teach others to be free of the rigidity and countless parameters of the varying fighting styles.

Bruce Lee has changed the world.  I strive to follow Lee’s footsteps in the dog whispering, training and behavioral modification world.  I am the Bruce Lee of dog training!  And Bruce Lee was right.

“If you always put limits on what you can do, physical or anything else, it’ll spread over into the rest of your life.  It’ll spread over into your work, into your mortality, into your entire being.  There are no limits.  There are plateaus, but you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.”

Be like water my friends!

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