In today’s complex world many of us forget to stop and smell the roses. However, “rose smelling” to a human, while important, is not nearly as important as butt smelling to a dog. I’ve written this short primer on the art of smelling a butt. I hope you enjoy it and that your dog can learn to perform this most vital of respectable, social, canine etiquette.
If your dog has dog aggression or is fearful, skittish, anxious, nervous, or whatever other label you can come up with one of the main areas to focus on would be their butt. I am dead serious. The back half of a dog is what I like to call “the more social half,” or “the end without weapons.” The astute observer of dogs and canine behavior can quickly see how important smelling a butt and getting your own butt smelled is as a greeting ritual in a canine’s social world and body language.
For the aggressive or reactive dog be sure to have already started a great foundation of heeling and leash work before attempting to get your dog’s rear smelled. This means the dog should be able to walk beside the owner or handler and NOT in front and the dog should be able to keep the leash relatively loose while doing so. NO tense, tight, or taught leash!!! If you and your dog cannot accomplish this heeling feat and your walks are terrible please go NOW and order my HEELING and LEASH MANNERS VIDEO! (That video is everything you’ll need to get you going on a great walk with your dog or pup.)
If your dog already has a decent heel started and can, for the most part, walk beside you and the leash is loose when there are no other dogs around you are then ready to help him/her begin to advance to butt smelling (Even and Especially if they do not want their butt smelled!).
Forcing a nervous or aggressive dog to get their rear end smelled is critical to behaviorally rehabbing the animal into a future of relaxed, and social interaction! The relaxed and social interaction has to start somewhere. I start with the heel and quickly progress to getting the dog’s butt smelled…even if it’s forced (meaning I’ll turn the aggressive or fearful dog around exposing his backside to the calmer, social dog who is attempting to greet the unsocial dog by smelling it). Forcing a nervous or aggressive dog to do something it doesn’t want to do is the name of the game! This stretches the dog’s capacity for sociability!
If it was up to the fearful or aggressive dog they would never choose to interact socially because they are probably quite comfortable with their shrinking social circle that includes manipulating and receiving unhealthy and non-beneficial human comfort or touching from the owner.
At this point many dog lovers would freak out and say something to the tune of “Never force a dog to do anything.” To that I would say “Rubbish!” Of course you can lovingly and calmly force a dog to do something. Example in the human world: I force my three-year-old to learn the rules of the road, to look both ways before crossing the street, and I may even physically grab him, if necessary, to stop him from running into traffic! This is done out of love and to teach him how the world works so he can function without me one day. The great reward for me as a parent will be a future filled with TRUST. People don’t seem to understand they can have a similar relationship with their dogs if the methods are correct.
The skittish or dog aggressive dog will not go along with getting his/her rear smelled easily…so be prepared to turn your dog’s head away from the approaching social dog they are about to freak out on. 180 degrees is perfect when first starting. Move as fast as you can to turn your dog’s head away and break the unsocial and aggressive eye contact your dog is giving to the approaching dog.
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Control your dog’s eye contact – Do NOT let them reengage and stare at the approaching dog. Control the eyes and you control the animal. Then KEEP THE DOG THERE in that position. They are forced to look away from the approaching dog and their butt is behind them where it should be and the owner has their head in the heel position looking away from the coming dog. The butt is exposed and ready for smelling!
At this point your dog if skittish, or aggressive, hyper, or fearful, rude, or just young will flail about and do everything in his/her power to turn around and stare, lunge, bark or bite at the approaching dog. They will do anything to get their weapons pointed and protect or hide their butt. They will do almost anything to remain UNSOCIAL and UNSMELLED!
Stay calm. Move fast but stay calm. Try not to even enter into what I call “the dance”: when a dog has too much leverage on the leash and is taking advantage of their owner and creating more space and lunging about and barking and snapping and leaping every which way et cetera.
Try your best to control the space in a very firm but very calm and commanding way. Keep the dog looking away and in the heel position. If you can do that relaxation and much more freedom is right around the corner for you and your dog. Sociability is waiting to be found but in many cases will never be found because the fearful, skittish, or aggressive dog, like a drug addict, is addicted to fearful and unsocial habits and they quickly become masters of evading social greetings. They hide their butt and never “shake hands” in the dog world.
This is why the caring human must take charge. When we make a dog get it’s rear end smelled by another calmer dog we are in the very least introducing the nervous dog to half a handshake. We are helping them with their own canine manners and greeting rituals.
Imagine how psychotic a person would be in our society if they refused to shake hands when meeting people! Imagine if that person wanted to be successful but would run or fight or simply hide anytime a friendly person, coworker, boss, or family member stuck out their hand to say hello. This is exactly what a huge percentage of dogs and pups do and shockingly the owners do nothing about it! The dog is certifiably INSANE and cannot even grasp the simplest of social beginnings like a dog handshake/butt smelling and yet there is hardly ever the attempt made at forcing them to have an inkling of manners and just get it over with and get their butt smelled. This inaction on the part of humanity is just one reason why in America each year 5 million people get bit by dogs!
The wild part is that after a few repetitions where the nervous or aggressive dog is getting spun around and we are controlling their head and their hip and exposing their backside to smelling from other social dogs… they begin to relax! They begin to calm down! We begin to normalize what should have been (and would have been if their hadn’t been any humans involved from birth) normal social canine interaction. The dog becomes less insane. The human owner/handler becomes much more confident in their handling abilities and they learn to achieve calmness quicker and quicker with each repetition. The formerly skittish dog soon only freaks out on other skittish or aggressive dogs and not on the social ones. A few days or weeks after that if we keep the exposure up they usually don’t freak out on any dogs!
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It’s time we do things the dog’s way and get great results. It’s time to get those unsocial dogs smelled! It’s time for owners to have the courage to stay on the same side of the street they were originally walking on (not hide or flee when they see another dog coming) and look at the approaching dog as a learning opportunity for their own crazy dog! It’s time for action. It’s time for speed. It’s time for calmness…..then…..and only then can you finally have trust!
Imagine trusting your dog enough to walk by another dog. Imagine trusting your dog off leash. Imagine trusting your dog at the dog park. You can get there. I can help. Start with “Heel” and then jump into the social adventure of getting your dog’s butt smelled!
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